Bulletproofing My Mornings

2022-07-14

Morning

I used to think of mornings as something I have to get through before starting my “real day”.

But here in Medellín, I crave them. I sit on my balcony breathing clean air, listening to birds chirping, and sipping on a cup of hot tea as I’m bathed in sunlight.

I architect my mornings carefully to ensure the rest of my day is productive and peaceful. There’s three tactics I use.

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#1: Writing

My quest starts with the mind. I don’t utter a single word until at least an hour after waking up. No phone calls, no talking to people.

This lets me gently arouse my mind from a nascent, hazy state to an active one. Caffeine helps with this.

Soon, out of repression, my mind starts bolting like a maniac horse. That’s where writing comes in.

Every morning, I write a page or two in my Leuchtturm1917 notebook. It helps me think with my hands. It also calms my monkey mind.

Monkey mind

Image Courtesy: The wonderful neural networks behind Dall-E

It’s a simple “brain dump”. I eject any clutter from my mind.

In doing so, I force my brain to think coherently and warm up ahead of the day’s thinking. It feels like the kind of stretching you do before a workout.

(Aside:) It’s paradoxical when I think about how writing both affects and comes from the mind. We often detach these cognitives activities from our mind to describe how they affect it:

And yet, in all cases, our mind is both the subject and the object. It is its own hall monitor.

#2: Limiting Electronics

I treat my freshly awoken mind like a newborn baby waking up from a nap. I limit its exposure to outside stimuli. For babies, that means other people. For my mind, that means other minds.

A big part of this step is shunning electronic devices until I’ve finished writing. No bombarding notifications, e-mails, texts, photos, or videos coming from other minds.

That first hour is cocooned for my own mind before I expose it to the chaos outside.

Some sub-tactics I use to resist electronic cravings:

  1. I don’t charge my phone by the bedside.

    I keep it across the room. It breaks the common habit of checking my phone while still in bed.
  2. I use a digital alarm clock to wake up.

    It’s one of the best under-$15 purchases I’ve made on Amazon. (It would’ve been the best, but I still can’t get over the electric candle lighter I bought for $10.)
  3. I set very specific notification settings for messaging apps: no lock screen alerts, no sounds, and no badges.

    For all other apps, I’ve either turned off notifications or set the delivery mode to “Scheduled Summary”. I also have friends who’ve set their phones to grayscale mode to make them less enticing to use.

My notification settings for messaging apps

The notification setting I use for messaging apps like WhatsApp and iMessage

#3: Standardizing breakfasts

I try to make breakfast within an hour of waking up. It’s the same meal every morning: Eggs with spinach and spiced lentils.

Eggs and egg whites with lentils and spinach

For a change of pace, I add tomatoes and onions or slice up a sausage on the side. Sometimes, I also add a spoonful of salsa (which, to my complete bewilderment, packs a punchful of flavor for a bargain of < 10 calories).

My breakfast is boring but extremely effective in eliminating mood and energy fluctuations.

I also have one less decision to make in the morning: “What should I eat today?”

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That’s all I use. Three simple tactics: writing, limiting electronics, and standardizing breakfasts.

In return, I get the holy grail of productivism: bulletproof mornings.


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Written by Aryan Bhasin